: By Ravi Kathuria

Do You Want Success? If So, Stop Your Obsession with Outcomes

by Ravi Kathuria, author of the book Happy Soul. Hungry Mind.

We live in a society obsessed with outcomes. It's embedded in our psyches. The familiar concept repeated by CEOs and Hollywood movie characters alike has been ingrained in us: "Focus on the results. Nothing else matters."

This conditioning starts young. When a child comes back from a soccer game, the question many parents ask is "Did you win?" Very few ask the questions "Did you enjoy the game? Did you put in your best effort? Did you learn anything? What will you do to improve next time?"

Yes, these are serious, involved, time-consuming, and perhaps boring questions. However, they're the types of questions that drive development.

"Did you win?" is a superficial and damaging question. It misguides the focus away from development and reinforces the notion that it's all about winning or losing. We've all been told "Winners are remembered; losers are forgotten." The underlying sentiment is that, unless you win, you don't amount to much. The damaging obsession with outcomes and winning plants the seed for dissatisfaction and sets the stage for failure.

Life is much bigger than winning and losing — and that's not only a loser's perspective. When we focus instead on the effort we put in, on playing at the best level we can, we become satisfied and at peace with ourselves. We live the best life we can. Winning and losing are byproducts. A loss today may turn into a different kind of win tomorrow.

When Outcome Obsession Becomes a Trap

When we obsess over outcomes we put ourselves into a state of anxiety and fear that robs us of our internal peace. What's more, outcomes are mostly out of our control. But the quantity and quality of effort we put in is within our control. When we focus on the effort without worrying about the outcome, we put ourselves in a peaceful state of mind — into the "zone" —and can produce excellent work. And excellence leads to success.

In his eighth and final Superball win as the Tampa Bay Buccaneer's quarterback, Tom Brady and his team were down 28 points at half-time. A deficit so large would be a point of no return for most teams who, in stressing over the perceived outcome, would become completely demoralized. Instead, Brady put his focus exclusively on his effort and playing the best that he could. This enabled him to lead his team to a stunning — and legendary — victory.

Successful tennis players are similarly able to succeed by applying a credo in their sport, "If you keep your eye on the ball, the score will take care of itself."

Yet the corporate world remains an egregious example of outcome-driven culture. Salespeople are compensated based on the quantity and size of the deals they close and not on how they accomplished their deals. Very few metrics track the unwritten promises the salesperson made just to close the deal. Could they leave the company in a vulnerable position where it might struggle to fulfill the commitment? In those situations, salespeople walk away with the bonus, while the operations division is left holding the bag. How the deal was executed is as important as the size of the deal. When they later run into trouble, it's usually because of the undocumented handshake and wink.

CEOs continue to be more driven by revenue numbers than by the development of the capabilities needed in their teams to help the organization continuously achieve the next level. Why? Celebrating revenues is simple, exciting, and immediate. Capabilities are harder to track and communicate, and decidedly less sexy than dollars.

Effort as the True Foundation for Success

But here's the reality: Outcomes are the consequence of focused and diligent effort. Outcomes are the tip of the iceberg. Without the larger unseen portion below the surface there could be no sustainable upper peak.

Today's high-quality effort is the surest foundation for the manifestation of exemplary outcomes and a company's success in the future. Teach your teams to focus on the effort and grow their capabilities. Growth in capabilities extending from leadership and strategic thinking, to engineering, operations, marketing, and sales, ensures revenue growth in the years to come. A company must apply an effort to grow in all these areas if it hopes to own the future.

3 Principles to Keep in Mind

To ensure emphasis is placed on effort instead of outcomes, keep these principles in mind:

1. Shift the focal point.

Companies needn’t avoid thinking about, discussing, and pursuing outcomes entirely — it’s the obsession with outcomes at the cost of everything else that’s damaging. Outcomes are only a piece of the puzzle. A good rule of thumb is to place 90 percent of the focus on the effort, and 10 percent on the outcomes.

2. Embrace the paradox.

It may seem counterintuitive, but the less we obsess about outcomes the more likely we are to achieve them. Effort that’s focused and outcome-aware delivers success. Outcome-obsession that overlooks effort is a recipe for disaster.

3. Celebrate the effort.

From boardrooms to kitchen tables, a societal culture shift is needed that measures and tracks the quality and quantity of effort as opposed to the outcome. A surer way to attain success is by celebrating the gains in development achieved through diligent effort.

The secret to success in work and in life is to be cognizant of the outcome but not obsessed with it. Making sure we do the best job that we can is the way to deliver excellence.

Book by this Author:

Happy Soul. Hungry Mind.: A modern-day parable about Spirituality

by Ravi Kathuria.

Happy Soul. Hungry Mind.: A Modern-Day Parable About Spirituality offers a refreshingly simple, inclusive, and judgment-free approach to understanding spirituality—entirely distinct from religion. Through a warm, humorous dialogue between two old friends, Ravi reveals how quieting the mind unlocks profound peace, blending timeless wisdom with the realities of modern life. Free from dogma and open to all—regardless of belief, background, or identity—this engaging parable shows that spirituality is not mystical or exclusive, but a natural human capacity woven into our very DNA.

For more info and/or to order this book, click here. Also available as an Audiobook and a Kindle edition.

About the Author

Ravi Kathuria is founder and president of Houston Strategy Forum and of the management consulting firm, Cohegic Corporation. He is a recognized business thought leader, vibrant speaker, and executive coach. He is the author of the highly acclaimed leadership parable, How Cohesive is Your Company?

His second book, Happy Soul. Hungry Mind. A Modern-Day Parable about Spirituality, is a non-religious and practical tale exploring spirituality. Ravi has made spirituality stunningly simple and accessible for all without judgement and preconditions. Learn more at happysoulhungrymind.com.

Article Recap

This article challenges society’s fixation on results, urging a shift toward valuing effort, growth, and capability development. By focusing on what’s within our control — the quality of our work — we foster excellence, peace of mind, and long-term success, both individually and in organizations.

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